I am a city girl. I grew up in the city and have lived in the city most of my life. The house I grew up in had a six foot privacy fence surrounding the backyard so needless to say, we did not see much nature in our yard growing up.

Today I live in the wide open expanse of immature trees and green grass that is suburbia...and I have a love/hate relationship with nature. Although I hardly live in the country, I have to deal with much more nature now than I ever have in my life and it's been a difficult adjustment at times.
I love the birds that visit my yard and I keep the feeders filled for them (and strategically placed so my cats can enjoy the birds too). I also have a bird house, and the birds build nests like crazy in my arborvitaes and evergreen tree every year.
I enjoy watching the frogs and salamanders

that visit my ponds frequently to hang out. It's so cool to watch the hummingbirds and butterflies feed on my flowers and I love being able to see lightening bugs and the stars at night. Sometimes I even get to see northern lights! The occasional ducks waddling in the yard and loons flying overhead singing their song is pretty cool too.
But...
I have never been very fond of bugs, (although as a gardener I have come to tolerate the "good" bugs) and in suburbia there's no shortage of bugs. I have seen a ton of bugs in my suburban gardens that I have never seen in my life. I really hate flying insects, especially the stinging kind! When I hear buzzing, I hit the deck. Though over the years I have come to like honey bees and no longer fear them when I am surrounded by them in the garden. Wasps on the other hand I will never like, they terrify and disgust me (even though I know they are one of the good bugs).
However, since moving to suburbia my biggest nemesis has been rabbits! I have tried pretty much all of the methods I've heard of to keep rabbits from eating my plants, I won't even get into all the things I have tried (that is a whole blog post in itself). I am very happy that I don't have to deal with deer (knock on wood!!), I've heard they are way worse than rabbits!! I hate to admit it, but I love to see the birds of prey in my neighborhood because they help control the rabbits. I love the hawks, owls and even bald eagles that we see in our neighborhood!! We also have coyotes and fox that help me in the battle against those furry little pests!
My latest brush with nature in this neighborhood has been with raccoons. I have only seen one and so far they have only gotten into the garbage and the compost once, and haven't bothered my gardens. This is one of the pests we had to deal with living in the city, but from what I remember, we only had to make sure to keep the lid secure on the garbage cans. Should I be worried about these new neighborhood dwellers? Will they eat or dig up anything in my gardens?
Squirrels are another little fury pest that I worry about. So far, the trees in my neighborhood are small enough that we don't have squirrels. I know it's only a matter of time before I have to deal with these pests too. This is my dad's biggest nemesis, in the city squirrels are everywhere. They dig up the bulbs and potted plants, they eat the tomatoes and are pretty much impossible to control. I will enjoy my freedom from squirrels while it lasts.
Over the years of gardening in suburbia, I have come to tolerate my brushes with nature, although I will never completely love it! So, what about you? What do you love about nature in your backyard? What is your biggest nemesis in the gardens?
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